Monday, January 21, 2013

susu ii


banyak persoalan ttg mahram di ruang komen2.

bagus,
benda yang kita tak tau--
kita tanya.

:)

sebelum itu,
aku mau perjelaskan empat terma ini:

1) anak susuan -
anak orang yang disusukan seorang perempuan yang BUKAN ibu kandungnya.

2) ibu susuan -
perempuan yang menyusukan anak yang TIDAK dilahirkannya.

3) bapa susuan -
lelaki yang mengahwini ibu susuan (seolahnya bapa tiri dgn anak tiri)

4) mahram -
orang yang haram kita nikahi. (note: MINTA ubah kalau2 ada di antara kita yang masih merujuk mahram kepada muhrim. muhrim bermaksud orang2 yang mengerjakan ihram)

ok. so far, faham, ya?

right. soalannya:
SIAPA yang akan menjadi MAHRAM kepada anak susuan?

aku permudahkan soalan:
SIAPA yang halal dipegang anak susuan walau dgn air sembahyang?

atau secara soalan biasanya:
SIAPA yang tidak boleh kita kahwini andai sah sudah menjadi anak susuan?

jawapan:

1) ibu susuan
2) bapa susuan
3) ibu-bapa ibu susuan
4) ibu-bapa bapa susuan
5) adik-beradik ibu susuan
6) adik-beradik bapa susuan
7) anak2 ibu dan bapa susuan
8) anak2 ibu susuan
9) anak2 bapa susuan

mudah, bukan?
tidak ada apa yang menyusahkan dalam islam.
kalau betul mau dibela dan dibela anak tadi--
SEMUANYA dipermudahkan.

:)

dan oh ya.
andai ditakdirkan mmg gagal menyusukan anak angkat tadi, mintalah jasa baik adik-beradik kita. kaau masyarakat risaukan hubungan anak angkat (susuan) perempuan dengan suami kita-- bilang saja: "cubalah husnuzzon"

:)

tuhan paling kasihkan anak2 kecil.
dia takkan biar anak2 kita terabai begitu sahaja.

*senyum*

untuk lebih bacaan, boleh rujuk link ini.
atau paling mudah: google sahaja permasalahan kita.
semua jawapan ada.

ps: terkini dari majlis fatwa. tidak perlu kenyang 5 kali. cukup diberi susu 5 kali. alhamdulillah. semakin mudah. :) tapi.. kalau dapat disetiapharikan-- lagi baguih, ya dak...?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

tak tutup aurat jika di lihat lelaki bkn mahram pun jadi haram fynn jamal...ini rumah kau tapi rumah kau ini milik ALLAH SWT..kita hnye meminjam saje :)

Anonymous said...

bila menulis berani dan rasa keramat ..jgn takut dgn kritikan ..bebas berpena hak kamu tapi jgn bebas tanpa berguru ..nanti kau hilang dihujung jalan ..percayalah..

ulya syukri said...

Assalamualaikum Kak Fynn. Hope you and your family are always in a good condition of Iman, Amal and Health. :)

Sincerely, I really love your posts about Islam and Life. Sangat bermanfaat dan berhikmah. Saya dapati Kak Fynn seorang yang sangat cermat and teliti dalam mencari maklumat dan sources yang tepat tentang Islam. You relate every of it to Al-Quran, Hadis and through the words of Ulama' Muktabar. Its really inspired me.. I'm wishing to be good Muslim too.. :)

I really support your good works on spreading the beauty of Islam to everyone. Its help me to improve myself a lot. Keep up the good work sis! :)

After reading your story about wearing hijab, I decide to share something to you. I found some articles which are very inspiring. Hope you dont mind to spend some times reading it. :) I just thinking, what supporter I am if I didnt support you towards Allah The Almighty's Pleasure. You shares good things (manfaah) to many people, so you deserves it (manfaah and barakah) too. (^_^)

Here's some words from one of the articles:

~ Many people feel they can't be practicing Muslims because it will contradict who they are and their culture. It doesn't have to be that way. I've learned that Islamic beliefs may not align with my lifestyle and that means I have to make adjustments in my lifestyle choices but not in who I am.

For example, eating healthier means avoiding junk food not avoiding food altogether. I have lived in a Western environment - my family, the schools I attended, my friends - this is what I've known all my life. Asking me to omit Western influence out of my life is like asking me to ignore or remove a significant part of my identity.

And I don't need or want a different life or identity than the one God has given me. (Why resist fate? Isn't that a sign of not trusting in God and His plans for us?) I want to incorporate Islam into my life and at the moment that means keeping my hijab on, getting rid of bad habits and letting go of unhealthy attachments. It also means adapting good habits like trusting in Allah, increasing my knowledge, praying more, reading and reciting more Qur'an, doing more dhikr and being more conscientious of my role in this world as granddaughter, daughter, sister, niece, cousin, friend, blogger, consumer etc.

Everything about striving to be a better Muslim has to do with an inner struggle. Even the "outer struggles" like wearing hijab and putting on modest clothes begins with an inner struggle. When it gets almost unbearable I remind myself that the greater the struggle the greater the reward, God willing.

And I hold on to Imam Suhaib Webb's words, "Better to be a sincere struggler than a fake saint." He also said different people articulate taqwa differently. For some it means staying up at night, praying qiyamulail and reciting the Qur'an, for others it means staying away from drugs. I'm not saying that it's a reason to be lazy in our efforts to be closer to Allah but it is a reason for us to be less judgemental and more understanding of how something can be harder for others than it is for ourselves. When it comes to ibadah we need to get our basics sorted out before moving it up a notch. The point is to make a sincere effort because the rest is all up to God.

Kak fynn, you can read the full articles here: http://shaelaiza.blogspot.com/2012/10/the-muslim-identity-crisis.html

And this one is worth-read too..aamiin..

http://zaharuddin.net/senarai-lengkap-artikel/3/898-tak-mahu-hipokrit-akhirnya-bertambah-dosa.html

Saya bukan Muslim yang baik tapi saya juga nak jadi seorang Muslim yang suka berkongsi kebaikan macam Kak Fynn. May Allah bless you.. Barakallahufiik! :)

Anonymous said...

Bila berani berani bersuara berani lah di kritik. Sekian terima kasih.